I am often bemused by the response that woman who wear headscarves as a requirement of their religion give.
Their first response is as one would expect, defensive. I like wearing the Hijab or Burka or other veil. Like most people if you ask someone why they do what they do their first impulse is one of defense.
Oddly the Qur’an does not mention such headgear except in reference Muhammad’s wives being instructed to wear a veil in the presence of the many men that he entertained as a dignitary. The only reference in the Qur’an to woman’s clothing was for women to guard their private parts and throw a scarf over their bosoms in the presence of men*. It wasn’t until generations after that woman were made (yes made) to wear such head gear. Like most thing in religion it is about dominance. Though that is not what I want to say today.
Today I have a statement and one question I would like to propose to such woman.
I understand you would feel uncomfortable not wearing your Hijab. The continual wearing of a piece of clothing is habit forming and the removal would give the person a sense of unease. This is perfectly normal and to be expected in a society where such habits are common place.
What I ask is this. If you were to decide not to wear your Hijab at home or in public, how would others in your family and society view you?
*ref: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hijab
December 22nd, 2017 on 1:43 am
Hey! glad to see this site. You have such motivation and spirit to know about religions and stuff. I appreciate it. I have a religion myself. Your digging in about that Qur’an is impressive, regardless where you’ve read it. The fact is a lot resources related to that stuff.
Anyway, you ask us how would others in your family view “you”? Well, you already knew the answer. Some will act it is okay, some say no, and many more reaction. We are just human being.
I really love the spirit of you to write the stuff in this site. But, I personally think that you miss the most important thing of “what if i was/were – them”. For me, the easiest way to understand things is…to be. To understand the way why the think that way. I know many things (good and bad) happened in your life, possibly related to annoying religion stuff. Believe me, me too.
I’m here studying abroad. Lots of knowledge I get. Not only academic/scholar stuff, but also self reflection, next-level force particle, life, etc. It makes me realize that this life is wonderful, so many parameters and activities that seems so infinite.
Wow, I love to talk to you again or do some discussion (with no hate). I can’t write too much. Have things to do. I’m not native English speaker. But, hopefully you get what I say. Looking back to this site again in time. Have a good one dude!